Biyung Nana

Forgiving is doable, even though it’s easier said than done.

I remember when I wrote this ‘takes two to tango’ few years ago. The moment when I could see things very clearly. The moment when we were together.

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It takes two to tango.
If there’s only one person on the dance floor, it’s time to find another partner.
Even if we’ve never danced before, shall we learn our step together

It takes two tango
And we are both responsible for the fight we throw

It takes two to tango
That the conflict is not the fault of just one person or the other
We are often both to blame, because it takes two to tango

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Although my ex-boyfriend was the one that hurt me, I think both of us made mistakes at some point in the relationship. Both of us were responsible for whether the relationship survived or not. I’m not perfect, neither is he. .

“I don’t need to agree with you but I try to understand your perspective. And that is how I let go of you.”

it takes two to tango and two to stop the dance as well.

One thing I’ve learned that forgiveness is not about the other person. It’s about letting myself out of the anger and grudge that I’ve been carrying these days. It heals me.

Regardless of the things said and done, forgiveness is the only way to free myself from the pain.

To forgive you.. And more importantly forgiving myself.